The DIVAS here at Hoodsocialite are starting a new series. We wish the best for our readers, so we are going to help you out. With our service announcements we'll help clue you into situations that are not suitable for a prosperous and happy Hoodsocialite. This week we will clue you in on a few hints to help you find out if your man is a loser. Here we go... in no particular order:

1.)Everything he owns is in someone else's name; he asks you to put any and everything in your name. (Credit is important and the last thing you need is a man with none or a chance to fuck up yours!)

2.) He only pays with cash. (Cash is king, but if your boo doesn't even have a debit card, me thinks there is a problem.)

3.) Lives at home with his parents. (No explanation needed)

4.) Lives with his "baby's mama, but they aren't together. (Not only does he not have his own place to stay, but he's living with his ex who also happens to have his child; you do the math.)

5.) Every time you go out , he has to leave early due to his curfew. (Now we all know anytime a grown man has a curfew, it means he's on parole; which for HS is a hell to the no!)

6.) Ever utters the words "Let me hold something" (No real man should be begging for shit.. period.)

7.) Invites you over for a sexy sleepover, you go over only to realize you aren't the only one there for the party. (Flatline....no words.)

8.) Thinks Cristal is your home girl. (Now not knowing about champagne is not a crime , but not being aware of the finer things in life is.)

9.) His idea of romance is asking you if you'd like your meal "Super-Sized". (Life is not all about money, but as a real woman you have to make sure you are a prize and treated as such, accepting a drive thru dinner is also accepting a drive thru relationship.)

10.) Has a habit of starting a fight and breaking up with you around every major holiday and birthday. (Any man who isn't man enough to just break it off is not worth getting broke off, any man who can't man up and buy a bish a some flowers or a Christmas gift is the ultimate loser an El Cheapo tight wallet...)

Toodles Poodles,

Tiffaney